We all know
the death of a reputed MNC employee in Hyd which was the hot news few days
before and I happened to read it completely in a social website about her
murder or death. News and media as usual have put their own words and views
about her death but only may be she or her family knows what exactly the truth
behind her death is.
This is what
I read and keeping before you all… she is married to the person whom she loved the
most and the reflection of their love has got 2 girl kids in Hyd. A small and
happy family for the past 5 years until she took her onsite assignment for more
than a year and she was returning to India to take her husband and kids back to
US to permanently settle there. That’s when the cruel thing happened and she is
no more now.
News and
Reuters show that she was having an EMA and that’s what made her to commit
suicide… she has texted the guy with so many stuffs… well.. these things apart…
Now comes
the Kernel… where does the problem lie for these kind of mishaps? Is it the
mistake of the organization who sent her onsite for her job? Or is it the girl’s
mistake to take up the assignment due to various reasons (family, professional
growth etc..)? or was she not interested
in family life and that’s what made her to take this decision? It was
even mentioned that she tried to commit suicide and that was a pre-planned
attempt! Why was she stressed out so much?
The problem
lies in every individual.. be it the organization, the employees.. anyone for
that matter… when someone is given an opportunity to go abroad and work over
there who will reject the offer when they will be offered a double salary?! But
the fact to be noted is why don’t the org or the individuals think before they
take up any assignment?? Nowadays woman and men are equal in all aspects and
they earn equally no matter how worse their family may be or even good ! but
what they fail to understand is money alone never matters… but we are being
made blind and we have fallen for money… guys say that they are working for the
benefit of the family.. but a girl would expect her husband to show his love
and affection on her.. this is the problem which happens in all the families of
everyday’s life… in this modern world we are made to go behind money and today’s
economic condition makes a husband and wife to work and as they get busy with
their work they tend to lose interest in their personal life and slowly when it
comes to a woman, she expects a solace and when that is not happening from her
better half and when she gets it from a person who is nowhere related to her that’s
where she falls for him…
Though this
is not fair on both parts yet both are to be blamed for their acts.. but it’s
the responsibility of husband and wife to understand each other and find a
solution for their relationship issues. A husband should also realize that his
wife needs his attention and he should ensure her he loves her more than he
loves his job. After all relationships last longer in life than money and job. A
wife should also realize that her husband loves her and she should express her
love in such a way that he makes sure that when he is not working he loves his
family. She should also understand that her husband is working for the welfare
of their family and she should provide an ambience in such a way that her
husband takes care of the family when he is not busy with his office work.
Will anybody
understand this? Can we avoid more murders and divorces because of family
issues?
Couples…
please think about this and people who are committed please give a thought
before you actually take up a job when you are going to be far from your
personal life…
