Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Mother’s love—the boon of everyone’s life



I take my cab from my home and my cab driver stops for a pickup at East end circle in Bangalore. Exactly by the time my cab reaches there, I encounter to see a kid probably who will be in 4th or 5th  std with his schoolbag trying to cross the busy road in the chill weather  by 7.20… he would cross the road with his mom’s guidance and even she will run with him (literally!) to help him in crossing the road J
Another cute scene very near to my house will be where a mom sits with her 7 year old kid waiting for his school bus to come and in the meantime she would have a look at his homework done, his tasks to be done for the day at school and she will talk with him in a friendly way about his school and other stuffs… such a great of love of mothers! I happen to encounter these cute scenes in my everyday life!
It makes me to remind my school days when my mom used to take care of me in the same way and monitor mine and my brother’s everyday education tasks… in spite of her personal problems, professional work pressures and issues with our dad she always used to be calm, composed and she would never lose her temper. Instead she will advice in a calm voice to us to put more efforts on our studies and to come up with bright colors. Not only studies, she has been more friendly to me and my brother in all walks of our life and showed us the base path that we should follow.
Today, we are grown ups and we earn in thousands and lakhs per month and we become busy with our lives. Have we ever thought of making her happy with our earnings?? mothers are the wonderful human in this world created by God as God cant come and help everyone everytime when we are in need of him. She is the one who is being hurt by her own kid(s) physically when we are in her womb,hurt by her husband ‘cos of his mental pressures, mentally when we scold her for our silly and big mistakes which we do.. yet she bears everything for the sake of her child’s world and family and still she smiles at us and spends sleepless nights for her kids
Today.. how many people think of their parents??? Many of us study well and pursue our higher education in abroad or get settled in abroad leaving our parents in our home country. Our parents feel proud when they think of us.. but have we ever thought of being with our parents for their remaining life?? Though they don’t want to be dependant on us, have we ever thought how our parents would feel when their world is not with them?
Many a times we hear mothers saying that my child left me alone or she is with her husband now in a far away place yet thinking of her child! Though  her first child may be her husband, she loves her kids more than she loves herself and her husband.
Especially for the mom’s who have got only son or only daughter how would it be when their kids, for whom they sacrificed  their entire life and still living for them leave them after once they are grown up and get settled in life??? Though the mothers seem to proudly say that their child is earning so much money and is in a healthy society, she will always have the pain in her heart that their child is not going to be with her anymore!
How sad it is to hear this when we think of this? When are we going to realize this in this materialistic world besides our busy schedule? Remember! The same will be the situation for us in future cos of our kids.. the present generation kids are too smart than us!!!
So guys and girls.. please realize the importance of mother and motherhood in your life and do not let your parents suffer cos of you…. Though they may not expect from us, atleast realize that they need our care, attention  and affection in every walks of our life… if you are living abroad, visit your parents esp your mom atleast once in a year and make her feel happy that her kid is with her.
For girls though its impossible to be as close as guys with their moms do spend some time in your life with your mom may be once in a year…. Make your kids to know that they have grannys at home town and make your kids to realize that they have greater relationships in their life. After all we can only repay our parents only with our love and affection and not merely by money or physical help.  

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